During the discussions he listens intently, offers advice, gives feedback, asks thought provoking questions and often shares scripture or stories that relate. His demeanor is always calm and comments positive. It's not always serious talk, sometimes our discussions drift into sports related stories or even a joke now and then.
I realized not long after our last meeting that this is what my prayer life should be like. When I approach my Father in Heaven in prayer, I can be myself without fear or intimidation. I can talk to Him as my friend and counselor and acknowledge my own strengths and weaknesses. I can ask for help and guidance. He will speak back to me through the Holy Spirit and scripture and give me insight and wisdom, without judgment or condemnation. As a husband, father, employee or any of the other roles I play, issues arise and I can always use some counseling or good advice.
In the New Testament, Book of James 1:5 it tells us: "If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you." (NIV)
I hope we can all consider our Heavenly Father, as our counselor and friend whom we will go to without hesitation.